Being a Designated Ugly Fat Friend

Sometimes being different is hard. Maybe it's because people make it hard on others trying to make it through one single day of high school or just ordinary everyday life. Yes, I haven't posted on this in a month but after watching The DUFF I feel more empowered to put my point of view as not a DUFF but as a girl who looks cool and yes people know my name but I'm my own DUFF. I have been bullied, talked bad to in my face, lied to and people knew about it. and YES even got trashed talked. School is like another world were the campus is our place to socialize but people care cruel sometimes and we can't help that but what some people can do is just Step 5: Acceptance there are steps of overcoming with the mean things people do.

THE FIVE STAGES OF DUFF

1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Depression
4. Bargaining
5. Acceptance

Ex of Step 1:At the beginning I denied that I was a duff and denied that I was a ugly person.

Ex of Step 2: I was upset that it was true that my outlook was wrong and how I wasn't as pretty as I thought.

Ex of Step 3: I went into deep depression and didn't know why I turned out so ugly.

Ex of Step 4: I decided to become close with my guy best-friend who I kinda had a secret crush on since forever.

Ex of Step 5: Acceptance the last thing well being a duff isn't all that bad sometimes understanding your different is what should make you happy my best-friend has never left me.


I'm my friend duff.
She's my duff.
We're different that's what makes the world work.
I hope this hits someones heart who are hurting others or who are going through this.